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PostSubject: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Aug 29, 2009 8:01 am

So the subject is should one tell her/his past if they r having broken or build anything would be shared with thier life partners



Will it create trust between them,or will be disaster. No relation can last long if it wasn't started on a good note. We need to be tolerant, can a male digest this,will be it easier for a girl to accept a man who has shared his feelings with anyone else before marriage
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Aug 29, 2009 8:31 am

It all depends on that particular person.....But in our society i dont think so some one tell his wife or her husband that i had a relation or what so ever....
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Aug 29, 2009 9:10 am

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It all depends on that particular person.....But in our society i dont think so some one tell his wife or her husband that i had a relation or what so ever....

mein kahoon gaa kaa ager woe batana bhe chayaa tu usa apna relation kaa khatum hona kaa dar hota haie
kiyou kaa kisi kaa mind mein kiya haie koi nahe jantaa Mad
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Aug 29, 2009 9:15 am

Ji nhi yeh zarori nhi hey. kionkeh shaadi se pehle ki zindagi pe kisi ka eik dosre pe koi haq nhi hota. donon azaad hote hen. is liye zarori nhi keh wo eik dosre se dhare karen. haan shaadi ke baad kisi ko koi haq nhi hey ke wo eik dose ko dhoka den.
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Aug 29, 2009 9:19 am

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Ji nhi yeh zarori nhi hey. kionkeh shaadi se pehle ki zindagi pe kisi ka eik dosre pe koi haq nhi hota. donon azaad hote hen. is liye zarori nhi keh wo eik dosre se dhare karen. haan shaadi ke baad kisi ko koi haq nhi hey ke wo eik dose ko dhoka den.


mr silly actually bat yeh haie kaa
koi ager yeh batana chata haie kaa
shyd woe apni sincerity show kar raha hoo
tu is mein kiya harj haie?
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Aug 29, 2009 9:25 am

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Ji nhi yeh zarori nhi hey. kionkeh shaadi se pehle ki zindagi pe kisi ka eik dosre pe koi haq nhi hota. donon azaad hote hen. is liye zarori nhi keh wo eik dosre se dhare karen. haan shaadi ke baad kisi ko koi haq nhi hey ke wo eik dose ko dhoka den.


mr silly actually bat yeh haie kaa
koi ager yeh batana chata haie kaa
shyd woe apni sincerity show kar raha hoo
tu is mein kiya harj haie?

yehzarori nhi keh aap mazi share karenge to sincere sabit karenge apne aap ko. ho skta hey aap ke share kerne se dosre ke dil mein baat beith jay. ur ho skta doora ka mind is level ka nah ho keh wo is shairing ko hazam ker ske.

sincere hone ke liye zarori hey keh jo time is ke saath guzre us men milawet nah ho. aap ke mazi pe nah us ka right tha ur nah us ke mazi pe aap ka right tha. mager yeh boaht kum log samjhte hen. isi liye shaadi ke baad mostly jub eik dosre ke mazi ka pata chalta hey to halaat kharab ho jaate hen.
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Aug 29, 2009 11:51 am

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MJKT wrote:
Silly wrote:
Ji nhi yeh zarori nhi hey. kionkeh shaadi se pehle ki zindagi pe kisi ka eik dosre pe koi haq nhi hota. donon azaad hote hen. is liye zarori nhi keh wo eik dosre se dhare karen. haan shaadi ke baad kisi ko koi haq nhi hey ke wo eik dose ko dhoka den.


mr silly actually bat yeh haie kaa
koi ager yeh batana chata haie kaa
shyd woe apni sincerity show kar raha hoo
tu is mein kiya harj haie?

yehzarori nhi keh aap mazi share karenge to sincere sabit karenge apne aap ko. ho skta hey aap ke share kerne se dosre ke dil mein baat beith jay. ur ho skta doora ka mind is level ka nah ho keh wo is shairing ko hazam ker ske.

sincere hone ke liye zarori hey keh jo time is ke saath guzre us men milawet nah ho. aap ke mazi pe nah us ka right tha ur nah us ke mazi pe aap ka right tha. mager yeh boaht kum log samjhte hen. isi liye shaadi ke baad mostly jub eik dosre ke mazi ka pata chalta hey to halaat kharab ho jaate hen.

mera bhi yehi khayal hai k agar apka partner mein itni tolerance hai k wo is such ko face kar sake ya xept kar sake to u should tell her/him but agar ap ko lagta hai k apka past jan'ne k bad apke partner ko ap ki sincereity pe shak ho sakta hai to behtar hoga k ap uske trust ko na toren or aisi koi bat us say share na karen jis se uske dil mein apki jaga tang ho jaye or baqi waqt or halat pe bhi depend karta hai kuch to phir us situation k mutabiq jo munasib ho wo karen
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Aug 29, 2009 12:09 pm

depend kerta ha k aap k partner ki soch kase ha ,aap dono ka relation kasa ha, ager to aap samajte ho k aap ka relation is had tak mazbot ha k us ko koi baat bi disturb nahe ker sakti to aap share ker lo
lakin asa hota kam he ha insani nature ha k us main jelous pun kam ho ya zayada hota zaror ha aor hum log apne is relation main kisi dosre ka saya bi pasand nahe kerte chahe wo past ka he kyu na ho
aor shaid aik lirki to compromise ker lete ha lakin lirke nahe :)
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Aug 29, 2009 3:05 pm

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depend kerta ha k aap k partner ki soch kase ha ,aap dono ka relation kasa ha, ager to aap samajte ho k aap ka relation is had tak mazbot ha k us ko koi baat bi disturb nahe ker sakti to aap share ker lo
lakin asa hota kam he ha insani nature ha k us main jelous pun kam ho ya zayada hota zaror ha aor hum log apne is relation main kisi dosre ka saya bi pasand nahe kerte chahe wo past ka he kyu na ho
aor shaid aik lirki to compromise ker lete ha lakin lirke nahe :)


kiyou larkoo mein tolerance nahe hote
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Aug 29, 2009 3:17 pm

kiyou larkoo mein tolerance nahe hote[/quote]

ji isi liye kaha ha lirkion main zayada berdasht hoti ha

lirkon ka dil boyz ki 4 times zayada bara hota ha :)
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Aug 29, 2009 3:26 pm

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kiyou larkoo mein tolerance nahe hote

ji isi liye kaha ha lirkion main zayada berdasht hoti ha

lirkon ka dil boyz ki 4 times zayada bara hota ha :)[/quote]



chalooo koi bat nahe......
khush hoo jayooo
kiya yad karoo geee
kis saa pala para thaa
jis kaa dil 8 time bara tha :D
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Mon Aug 31, 2009 11:00 am

hahahhhha depent karta hai k wo person kasi ya kasa hai ,,if open mined then maybe ok,,per i don't think so someone like ....
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Mon Aug 31, 2009 11:09 am

$!l3/\/t Oc3@/\/ wrote:
Silly wrote:
MJKT wrote:
Silly wrote:
Ji nhi yeh zarori nhi hey. kionkeh shaadi se pehle ki zindagi pe kisi ka eik dosre pe koi haq nhi hota. donon azaad hote hen. is liye zarori nhi keh wo eik dosre se dhare karen. haan shaadi ke baad kisi ko koi haq nhi hey ke wo eik dose ko dhoka den.


mr silly actually bat yeh haie kaa
koi ager yeh batana chata haie kaa
shyd woe apni sincerity show kar raha hoo
tu is mein kiya harj haie?

yehzarori nhi keh aap mazi share karenge to sincere sabit karenge apne aap ko. ho skta hey aap ke share kerne se dosre ke dil mein baat beith jay. ur ho skta doora ka mind is level ka nah ho keh wo is shairing ko hazam ker ske.

sincere hone ke liye zarori hey keh jo time is ke saath guzre us men milawet nah ho. aap ke mazi pe nah us ka right tha ur nah us ke mazi pe aap ka right tha. mager yeh boaht kum log samjhte hen. isi liye shaadi ke baad mostly jub eik dosre ke mazi ka pata chalta hey to halaat kharab ho jaate hen.

mera bhi yehi khayal hai k agar apka partner mein itni tolerance hai k wo is such ko face kar sake ya xept kar sake to u should tell her/him but agar ap ko lagta hai k apka past jan'ne k bad apke partner ko ap ki sincereity pe shak ho sakta hai to behtar hoga k ap uske trust ko na toren or aisi koi bat us say share na karen jis se uske dil mein apki jaga tang ho jaye or baqi waqt or halat pe bhi depend karta hai kuch to phir us situation k mutabiq jo munasib ho wo karen

Ek dum theek kaha. Me agree kerta hon.
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Mon Aug 31, 2009 11:10 am

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depend kerta ha k aap k partner ki soch kase ha ,aap dono ka relation kasa ha, ager to aap samajte ho k aap ka relation is had tak mazbot ha k us ko koi baat bi disturb nahe ker sakti to aap share ker lo
lakin asa hota kam he ha insani nature ha k us main jelous pun kam ho ya zayada hota zaror ha aor hum log apne is relation main kisi dosre ka saya bi pasand nahe kerte chahe wo past ka he kyu na ho
aor shaid aik lirki to compromise ker lete ha lakin lirke nahe :)

Haan ji really lerkon men berdasht kum hoti he is men koi shaq nhi.
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Mon Aug 31, 2009 11:11 am

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hahahhhha depent karta hai k wo person kasi ya kasa hai ,,if open mined then maybe ok,,per i don't think so someone like ....


haam lerke jitta bhi open mind ho jaein is baat pe apna aap show zaror kerte hen.
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Mon Aug 31, 2009 11:47 am

Silly wrote:
Emen wrote:
hahahhhha depent karta hai k wo person kasi ya kasa hai ,,if open mined then maybe ok,,per i don't think so someone like ....


haam lerke jitta bhi open mind ho jaein is baat pe apna aap show zaror kerte hen.

acha pher theek haie
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Tue Sep 01, 2009 7:17 am

Silly wrote:
Emen wrote:
hahahhhha depent karta hai k wo person kasi ya kasa hai ,,if open mined then maybe ok,,per i don't think so someone like ....


haam lerke jitta bhi open mind ho jaein is baat pe apna aap show zaror kerte hen.


maybe but not everyone.....thier someone can mind ,,
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Tue Sep 01, 2009 9:18 pm

ager koi larka kara tu theek haie
koi larkee kara tu......us kaa bura hasher kar diya jata haie
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Tue Sep 01, 2009 9:22 pm

yeh he to baat ha lirkon main bardasht ahe hoti a
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Fri Sep 11, 2009 3:11 am

sahe kah...........
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Sep 12, 2009 12:40 am

MJKT aap khud he batain ager aap khud
ko is jaga per rakhain to aap kasa feel karo gay?
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PostSubject: Re: should tell or not ur past to your life partner   Sat Sep 12, 2009 4:18 pm

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MJKT aap khud he batain ager aap khud
ko is jaga per rakhain to aap kasa feel karo gay?

mein jitnaa bhe acha banaa kii koshish karoo gaa mager woe sach dil mein kahen naa kahen
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